I know what you’re thinking. A booty call? How can you have a “booty call” when you’re only single?
It’s not like a booty call has to be in a committed relationship. And you can definitely have a booty call that’s totally platonic.
In fact, it’s not just me. A booty call can also be “friends with benefits” or “just sex.” Or it can be a fun friendship with a high level of sexual tension. It can even be an erotic friendship.
So, if you’re looking for a casual fling, a booty call is a great place to start.
What Is A Booty Call?
A booty call is an unplanned sexual encounter. You do not know each other in advance.
You might be friendly with a guy or girl at your gym, or from your office, or a mutual friend. When you’re hanging out, you casually start to talk. Maybe you share some interests, or you just talk about a bunch of stuff.
Eventually, you start to get flirty, and the other person starts flirting back. It’s hard to know when that first flirtatious conversation is just a friendly exchange or something more.
Either way, you start to get into a conversation, and you end up hooking up.
Booty calls are one-time sexual encounters. They’re casual. It’s not like you’re dating. You just want to sleep with someone else. You’re not looking for a committed relationship. You don’t expect to become boyfriend and girlfriend.
How Can I Get A Booty Call?
You can get a booty call in a variety of ways.
The first way is to simply start up a conversation with someone you’re attracted to and flirt with them. You don’t know what the other person is thinking. You don’t know if they want a booty call or a relationship.
But you might get a “yes” or a “maybe” and go from there.
The second way to get a booty call is to use a dating app like BootyCall.io, Tinder, Bumble, Plenty of Fish, or OkCupid.
You can use a dating app to find people you’re interested in.
This can be a great way to find someone to hook up with.
You can browse through the profiles of the people you’re interested in. You can respond to all of the people that you find attractive. You can send people flirty messages. You can keep going back to the app until you find someone to booty call.
What If I Want A Relationship?
While a booty call isn’t a relationship, it can be a fun sexual encounter with a guy or a girl who’s not expecting anything more. If you start to have feelings and want a relationship with your booty call, it’s best to communicate these feelings before they get out of control, and stop hooking up if you both don’t agree on what you want.
If you hook up with someone and both of you want to start a relationship, there are a few things you need to think about.
You need to be able to trust your partner. If your partner is someone you don’t know, you might have a hard time trusting them.
If you hook up with someone and both of you want to start a relationship, you need to be clear on what kind of relationship you want. Are you comfortable with a one-night stand? Do you want to be in a long-term relationship? Do you want a relationship where you’re just friends?
You need to be clear on what you want from the other person.
Conclusion
A booty call is a fun way to get laid. It’s different than a regular date.
You can have an erotic friend or a booty call with a girl or a guy. It’s not something that requires a relationship.
You don’t have to have the perfect setup. You don’t have to be 100% sure how the booty call is going to turn out.
In fact, you can even leave your expectations at the door. Have fun with the booty call, and if you feel like it’s turning into more than you expected, be honest and stop hooking up.