I love a soft, flowy dress. Weddings give me a reason. This year I wore three boho dresses to three very different weddings. Beach. Vineyard. Barn. Each one had wins. Each one had quirks too. Here’s what actually happened.
For size notes: I’m 5'6", about 165 lbs, size 8/10, 36C. I carry weight in my hips, and I like room to dance.
Quick take
- All three looked dreamy in photos.
- One ran long and caught sand.
- One needed tape so the straps stayed put.
- One had a flirty slit that tried to fly away in the wind.
For anyone who prefers a quick scroll with extra pictures, you can jump straight to my real-life take on boho wedding guest dresses I wore this year over on VT Vows.
Let me explain.
1) Free People “Feeling Groovy” Maxi — Santa Barbara beach wedding
I wore the green floral one with the wide sleeves. Size medium. It felt like a cloud. Not tight. Not stiff. It swished when I walked, which I loved. The skirt moved in slow waves, like the ocean behind us. Cheesy? Maybe. True? Yep. If you want to see the exact dress, you can find it here.
The good stuff:
- Breezy and light, even under the sun.
- The print looked rich on camera.
- The waist tie gave shape without squeezing.
The hiccups:
- It ran long. Even with wedges, the hem kissed the sand and got damp.
- The fabric was a bit sheer at noon. I wore a short nude slip, and that solved it.
- A gust of wind gave me a “Mary Poppins” moment. Those big sleeves catch air. Cute in photos, but I held them down during vows.
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Bra notes: sticky cups worked. A strapless bra showed at the sides, so I skipped it.
Would I wear it again? Yes, for any outdoor wedding with a breeze and a playlist that begs for twirls.
2) ASTR The Label “Gaia” Dress — Sonoma vineyard wedding
This one is a tiered midi with tie straps and a smocked back. I picked the rose print. Size large for a comfy fit after pasta and cake. I thought the midi length might feel plain. It didn’t. The tiers gave a soft shape, and the neckline sat sweet but not fussy. You can check it out here.
The good stuff:
- Smocked back = I could breathe and eat. Important.
- Lined skirt. No show-through in daylight.
- Stayed put while I danced. Zero tugging.
The hiccups:
- The zipper caught right where the seam meets the waistband. I had to wiggle it. Not ideal when you’re late.
- The tie straps slipped once. Fashion tape fixed it. If you hate tape, double-knot the bows and pin under the knot.
- Sits best with block heels. With flats, the length felt a bit off on me.
Bra notes: I wore a regular bra and tucked the straps under the ties. It worked, but tape made me feel safer.
Would I wear it again? Yep. It’s easy and pretty. I got three “Where’d you get that?” asks before the first toast.
3) Show Me Your Mumu “Caitlin Ruffle Wrap Dress” — Vermont barn wedding
This one is peak boho: ruffles, wrap waist, floral print. Mine was a warm peachy mix. Size medium. Wraps are a gift because they adjust with dinner. The fabric skimmed my hips and didn’t cling. I could two-step, swing, and even crouch for a group photo without a fight.
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The good stuff:
- Adjustable fit. Tie tighter, tie looser, no drama.
- Print hides spills. A splash of cider vanished in the flowers.
- Great swoosh factor on the dance floor.
The hiccups:
- The slit ran high with wind. I used a tiny safety pin inside the ruffle so it still moved but didn’t flash.
- Static happened near the barn lights. A dryer sheet fix in the bathroom helped.
- The hem tried to catch on my block heel ruffles once. I learned to step back, then turn.
Bra notes: plunge bra or sticky cups. A full-coverage bra peeked at the V.
Would I wear it again? Yes, with biker shorts under if it’s windy. No one sees them, and I relax.
Styling that saved the day
- Shoes: I wore nude block heels for all three. They don’t sink in grass. For the beach one, I packed clear flat sandals for the sand, then switched back.
- Bag: A small woven clutch fit my phone, tape, and a mini brush. Not much else, but that’s fine.
- Hair: Loose waves held with soft spray. If it’s windy, a low bun is smarter. I learned that the hard way near the dunes.
- Jewelry: Gold hoops, thin bangles, one pendant. Boho feels better when it’s light.
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By the way, my partner wrestled with the dress-code puzzle too. His navy suit, loafers, and patterned tie nailed that sweet spot between casual and polished—you can see the full breakdown in his semi-formal wedding attire for men guide if your plus-one needs ideas.
Fit and comfort notes you might care about
- Length: Free People ran longest. ASTR hit mid-calf. Mumu was true midi with a longer back ruffle.
- Wrinkles: ASTR was the most wrinkle-safe. Free People crinkles are part of the look. Mumu needed a quick steam. I carry a travel steamer, but a hotel’s iron on low with a towel also works.
- Movement: All three pass the sit test and the dance test. The wrap needed that hidden pin.
- Heat: The beach dress breathed best. The Mumu got warm inside the barn, but I didn’t sweat through it.
What I’d change if I could
- Add a tiny snap inside the Mumu V-neck. One stitch would solve the “hello” neckline.
- Shorten the Free People hem an inch. It would be perfect with flats.
- Fix that ASTR zipper seam. It catches right where your patience ends.
My final picks, plain and simple
- Best for wind and sun: Free People Feeling Groovy Maxi.
- Best for photos and all-night wear: ASTR The Label Gaia Dress.
- Best for dancing and big meals: Show Me Your Mumu Caitlin Wrap.
You know what? Boho dresses make weddings feel less stiff. They move with you. They forgive a second slice of cake. And they look sweet in golden hour light.
If you’re close to my size, start with medium in Free People and Mumu, and large in ASTR for comfort. Bring fashion tape, a mini safety pin, and a dryer sheet. Small things, big save.
I didn’t expect to like all three. I did. But if I had to pick one for another invite next month, I’d grab the ASTR Gaia again. It’s easy, pretty, and stress-free. And that’s the real win.